Can it really be 40 years already?? I've been married for 30 years and have three children: Rachel, 29; Ryan, 25; and Austin, 23. We live in rural Napoleon, Ohio, on 3.5 acres. My son Ryan and daughter-in-law Allison had our first grandchild, Luke, this summer! Rachel is getting married the week before Christmas, and Austin is proposing this September. It's a busy year for us.